Couples who play together - stay together

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  1. Hanuman
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    Games and bedroom work decently, but unplugged random electronics is too uncomfortable to be erotic-- clearly fetish. I recommend picking up some ramp cushions, or if you're handy find a place to get some cheap foam and heat up a wire and cut it, then use ordinary pillows or throw cushions to fill the gaps and test it, keep cutting until you find something that works for both of you.
     
  2. doctorie
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    I met my fiance in Second Life.

    Pc side by side.
    We are side by side.
    gaming couples rule.

    She even logs in from her office to be with me.
    She is the CEO..so she can do that.

    ^fantasy football^
     
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    No dice no minis no stacks of books no board. I do believe doctorie is right
     
  4. Kava
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    Haha nvm, I don't guess its very appropriate ;x
     
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    yeah i dont know i could def drop this whole hard core gaming thing for sure

    might need too keep an xbox or something around :)

    that is of course if right girl comes around haha
     
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    I bought skyrim for xbox...she is in there now playing it.

    good lord what have i done
    Ive created a monster.
     
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    I can say from my gaming relationships, and I've been in a few, that everyone is different. True fact: some chicks have never picked up a console controller in their life. And, some carry it around with them everywhere, be it on hand or in their purse, and would never relinquish it for anything outside of a future-power, bionic-enhanced deathgrip. Coupled with an ultra powerful Evil Eye, to be certain.

    {tl;dr OK}
    Occasionally, or actually, fairly often, folks who aren't avid gamers just don't understand. The mutual understanding part is more important than having actually played together, but, playing together is pretty sweet, too. Chicks who play video games are on the level with everyone else who games and they know it.
    {tl;dr End}

    It's key to find at least one game the spouse/SO wants to get into and let them take it their own direction.

    Also, if your family isn't with the times and hails back unto ye treacherous, technology-absent olden days, marriages used to be that the ...
    {tl;dr OK}
    husband would go to work and the wife would stay home. Guys would go out drinking, girls would stay in.. housekeeping? All that is changed, but there really is just one giant vacuum when it comes to any historical material at all to pull up from your family roots as to what to do about computer gaming. In my family, for instance, everyone roughly 40 and under went with the technology curve and nearly everyone over stuck with what they already know.
    {tl;dr End}
    We're pioneers of the technology age here, so spread that lovin'!

    Whether gaming is all one does or not, switching up material is still good conversation, especially compared to playing WoW every day. It's like reading more than one book! Seriously yeah, if you're going to stay inside all day and not go hiking, or make some art, or at least provide moral support and a good shoulder rub, you should be playing Guitar Hero, or Pac-Man, or anything, for crying out loud!
     
  8. doctorie
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    yea..what he said ^

    to further the quest for girls that game
    here is my gaming girls avatar..in Second Life.


    ..note 3 houses..one for me..one for my fiance.. and one for another long time xen member who plays our 20yo daughter.
    Love you always Littleone!!! xoxoxo

    that is in an area I have created and own.
     
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    :tear: zomg... Erock is cheating on me?
     
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    I see the opposite end of the spectrum. My boyfriend and I game, but he feels REALLY left out whenever I play with Xen, and not him.

    And yeah Bob, Warhammer mini's time ftw. :) He assembles, I paint.. And then we game it up on the kitchen table. Loads of fun. :)
     
  11. The Cox
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    So why not get him to join xen Rael?
     
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    Sounds like The Cox is onto something there.
     
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    :p I've tried.

    But I guess the point is that yeah, I can totally see how couples would have problems if in the long run one games and the other doesn't.
    I have on friend who met his spouse online.. he games, she doesn't. We don't see much of him anymore :(
     
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    lol all you idiots posting pics and stuff of sexy females in games. I would put this vid I found buts considered porn. Basically the GF is busy playing CoD while barely able to keep up cus her BF is giving her a backside pounding.
     
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    Boner kill
     
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    PM ME!! I want to see! lol
     
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    I... this thread... oh my god...

    I love you all, I honestly do.
     
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    Wow this thread's gone downhill.
     
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    Its the MMO's that cause issues. Its easy enough to get off a single player game when a partner starts trippin but when your in a group sometimes you'll be playing for hours longer then you ever intended to. I dont see gaming being an issue until MMOs come into the picture, unless your really freaky and cant get off a SP game.
     
  20. Hanuman
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    Try gaming + sex and re-evaluate.